4 Powerful Psychological Life Hacks and Tricks (USE THIS!)

These are the most powerful psychological life hacks, use these now!
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The 4 Best Psychological Life Hacks and Tricks I learned:

1. If you want others to open up to you or like you, make them the most important thing in the world. In Psychology this is referred to as “Active Listening”. All you need to do is give your entire attention to them when they talk. There are various ways you can implement this:

Think that you have to give an hour long presentation on what they talked about the next day.
Act like they have something to share that will give you a million dollars.

Doing so will make sure you pay full attention to what they say. The difference is minute in your eyes, but the subconscious effect it has is massive! People will feel it and will love to talk to you, because you make them feel like they matter. Which is one of the most sought after feelings in the world.

Try going an entire day with paying full attention to everyone and get their responses the next day. You will be surprised by the difference it made for them.

2. You see what you think about.

This is a security mechanism in our brain to confirm that we are right and to boost our ego. The interesting part comes in when you realise that this works for everything!

When we think about positive things, how great the world is and how amazing our life is, we see more proof of it in the real world. What might be considered normal will be considered great in this Point of View. The same way when we think about how bad everything is and how Life is going against us, we see normal events as being negative and small problems as being gigantic.

The best way to use this to our advantage is to think about how we want the world to look like. Because we find proof for everything we look for it is up to us to decide how we want to see the world. If we do not do this, someone else will decide for us.

Using this effectively can lead to a happier life, filled with gratitude and amazement. But it does take practice and effort.

3. Motion creates Emotion. It is a common Research subject in Psychology and has been studied in many different aspects. The most popular one is “How to feel more confident”. Studies in this area have shown that the more space you take up, the more confident you feel. When you sit, sit with your legs open and arms outstretched, when standing, stand up tall and wide.

What’s even more amazing than these findings is the fact that this works with every Emotion. Whenever you want to be happy, excited, confident, sexy, loving, or whatever else, just think about what a person with those qualities would do. Imagine that person in the same situation, how would they act? What would they say? What would they think?

Ask yourself these questions and then simply copy that person in your head. Depending on how you move and behave your brain will activate the areas in your brain corresponding to the emotion you portray and release the corresponding hormones to make you feel that way!

4. Reality Testing. A lot of our daily problems arise from us overthinking. We make the problems bigger or smaller than they actually are and need the help of these strategies to actually see the reality. Without this we cannot solve the problem because we either get too scared to try, or think the problem isn’t that big and do not think it is worth solving.

In Reality Testing Psychotherapists encourage clients to look at their problems objectively and to back-track to the negative thoughts and analyse them. Some common ways we tend to do this are:

Over-generalisation. Thinking that one negative event will lead to more and more negative events is something we cannot know. We generalise the meaning of what happens even though we have no idea. Instead think that this is one event, period. It is just one event and the next event is completely separate from it.

Thinking in “All” or “Nothing”. To overcome this you should be very precise in what you say. This is also how a lot of fights start with couples. Phrases like “You always do this” or “You never do that” lead to a skewed perception of Reality. Instead think about how often something occurred in the last week or month and count the exact number. This will remove the extremist thinking, getting you closer to the solution of the problem.


21 thoughts on “4 Powerful Psychological Life Hacks and Tricks (USE THIS!)

  1. Peechu peechu January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    A much needed one..thnks..I overthink a lot..nd most of the time negative thinking too..:(

  2. Amin Ahmed January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Awesome video! Subscribed!

  3. cassheng69 January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Thank you coach Rafeal. Noted. For things to change, I must first change and be more aware of 5 emotions of others around me. 🌼

  4. Unknown January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    could you do a video on how to clear your mind and remove negative thoughts

  5. flumpnut January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Can you do a video on time management

  6. flumpnut January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    The video was amazing and the animation on the video was incerdible! what software did you use?

  7. Tuber Cold 3135 January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    awesome bro… thanks a ton…😀😀😀😀

  8. Arnee Me January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Great video =) I have a question btw, do you have a video on how to set a goal?

  9. naveen rayudi January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    i love this video man

  10. sharad hirve January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    nice video

  11. MMACZ88 January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Got speechless in thinking about these wonderful tips…Thanks a lot!!!

  12. GOOD KANG January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Thx for video 👍🏻

  13. Daniel Isaac January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Amazing video. 👍

  14. José Orellana January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Thanks, I'm sure I can get better with that, You always say good things about how to improve.

  15. YoAntoNeo January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Thanks for this, I do the first one a lot and I've become memorable, people ask about me all the time lol…also, nice animations Rafael! 😊

  16. tdbandara365 January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    one of your best videos, bravo!!! eye-opening to say the least.

  17. Manish Thapa January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Bro can make a video on bad thinking and to overcome Them

  18. Jasmine January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    I am gonna use all of them. Thank you💖💖💖

  19. Maria Reid January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    you can do by giving 100 per cent show them were you are and what life is about not everyone is the same be who you are not something you our not

  20. Patrick Olson January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Great video! Thanks for sharing.

  21. Justin January 14, 2018 at 3:56 am

    Another very great video ! 😊

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