Communication Hacks: 5 Tips for Better Conversations



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The quality of our communication is the quality of our life. Here are the best 5 communication tips I learned from interviewing hundreds of experts over five years.

Clark back from clarkkegley.com – talk about communication mini series. I studied comm in college / did over 100 on air interviews with experts / +400 videos / dozens of public speaking. Sharing best tips – today on communication: how to communicate more effectivly!

Watch Part I here: https://youtu.be/VXRnFZAZZ_k

Best Hacks:

1. Let Them Finish
2. Don’t Be a One Upper
3. Minimize Powerless Language
4. Nonverbal Trumps Verbal
5. Paraphrase

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40 thoughts on “Communication Hacks: 5 Tips for Better Conversations

  1. Ty _ Ty February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    I take a major in communications and nonverbal language is critical like you said! Good point

  2. Carmelle Jean-Paul February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    I’m starting to feel that I am like a one upper but truthfully it is my way to connect with whoever I am speaking to to let them know I am in a similar situation or I am doing the same thing not to say I am better than them. But now I hear myself thinking do I always have to make everything about myself? My question is is there a difference between bringing relatable similarities or should you just avoid that all together?

  3. Aram Esam February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Wow!! That second tip was so true…thanks

  4. Stefan February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    actually all these tips are very helful! Thank you I'll try to learn from this!

  5. CNDDCJ February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Like, uhm…

  6. Oh_Dat_guy February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Paraphrasing after someone asks you about what they said is a life saver. I have used it multiple times and even if it's really minimal it works. Just remember what the person was saying, even a couple of words and just explain that to them. Works perfectly if it's done right.

  7. Barzhikev Il February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    The one upper is something that almost always kills the vibe of the conversation. And it's sad, because smalk talk is about that, about amping up the vibe of everybody involved.

  8. Nicholas Field February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Freakin love this channel

  9. Eleonora Fomina February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    I love u

  10. Aaliyan The YouTuber February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Punching yourself is not meant to punish yourself. That is not good. But as far as Memory is concerned and it works then .. no no I don't believe in punishing.

  11. Ashfalor February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    The non verbal thing can be bad as well, many people do it constantly, you say a sentence or two and by that time they have noded 5times.. it's about equal to the verbal shit.

  12. S X February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Who the hell diskliked this?

  13. Kyler Stock February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Very original…good, practical advice.

  14. Scott Cameron February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Great video. I disagree on Obama though. His speeches always felt very scripted to me, not much personal "fire" in them.

  15. Alex Horcrux February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    the 3rd tip was kinda easy when you are not english 😛 but i'm totally agree with all of them, i've used to use them even before but i like your videos and i like what you are doing for the community. Good job mate, u will be paid properly for all your work one day.

  16. Michelle Steppens February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    This great info to put into practice, Thank you. Paraphrasing is magic especially in sales.

  17. khalil ur rehman February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    thanks for sharing this valuable techniques, i will practise it,
    two favorite points, 1. Let them finish first 2. don't be upper one

  18. Alexa NYNY February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Excelllent tips.
    I will practice them .👍

  19. Gui Roul February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Did you readed books in communication class, if yes, I would appreciate to know the names!

  20. Dubem February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Great video the paraphrase bit is golden it shows you really got where the person is coming from its something I needed reminding of thanks Clark!

    My tip is when someone is talking visualize yourself as them in that situation and feel what it was like. One positive thing about this is it takes you out of your own head so you are with them instead of thinking about your reply and your reply becomes more authentic and supportive to there needs.

    Am subscribed and will be exploring your channel thanks mate

  21. Silvia Tunnell February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Dynamite tips Clark!! Putting these to use starting today. thank you kindly

  22. JacobysJourneys February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Awesome advice Clark, thank you for sharing. "Don't do it every time, it gets creepy…" Haha thats so funny but true!

  23. sylvie scopazzo February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    OMG I AM SO SHARING THIS!!! I'm always saying LET ME FINISH. My powerless language word would be ACTUALLY and I think paraphrasing is the bomb! I love this 5 point hacks! Quick and to the point! 🙂

  24. Ludwigvan February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    How well would Obama speak without teleprompter… and I am not sure he writes (all of) his own speeches.

  25. Maria Lawrence February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    very impressive, you make the other so special and the emotional bonding is great if one follows all the five tips.

  26. Sarah Christine February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    My best communication tip… always ask questions you actually give a damn about the answer to. I don’t like to be bored in conversations… so I ask things I actually want to know the answer to. If someone sounds very well traveled, I might ask them where are a few places they think I would enjoy the most, and why. If they’re an “old soul”, I’ll ask something like “if you could give me any advice, what would it be?” – stuff like that. Stuff that isn’t going to bore me.

    That, plus be fully engaged. Stay off your cell phone while talking to someone. It's rude.

    And Clark, I don’t think your saying “alright” is as bad as you might think…. I wouldn’t have thought about this before, but because you brought it up, it made me think, saying “alright” probably subliminally makes a lot of people think “all right” – like everything is all right… so it might give them a feeling of peace… or like "all right" like everything you’re saying is correct. It's all right.

    Any who… good video… If I were you, I’d hope my girlfriend doesn’t watch this 😉

  27. Emmanuel COLIN February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Thank you for this great video. Regarding tip #3 – What word(s) would you recommend to use to show that you are engaged in a conversation when you can not provide non verbal clues, if you are on the phone for example? Thanks.

  28. Joyful Investor February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    what mic are you using?

  29. Confidential Male February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Good stuff

  30. Salty Mermaid February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    The first one is something I recently noticed about myself (blush) and I'm working to improve. All of these are helpful, though. I particularly like the 4th tip. It's not one I'd considered before, but it makes a lot of sense. On a similar note, I think eye contact (when in person) is important. It's hard to believe someone is listening to you if he/she is looking at a screen instead of you.

  31. dj tagg February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Great tips, thanks. This and that other vid you did about conversation both have really useful advice.

  32. Allen Cookenmaster February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Pleased with myself to say I already do a couple of these. Definitely will work harder to minimize pwrless words. I feel paraphrasing will help me to be better listener. Nonverbal confirmation that I'm listening, this is a good one cause I want people to know I'm listening and conversation gets choppy when I interupt, but I want them to know I'm listening. So a nod to you. Really enjoy the videos

  33. Allen Cookenmaster February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Pleased with myself to say I already do a couple of these. Definitely will work harder to minimize pwrless words. I feel paraphrasing will help me to be better listener. Nonverbal confirmation that I'm listening, this is a good one cause I want people to know I'm listening and conversation gets choppy when I interupt, but I want them to know I'm listening. So a nod to you. Really enjoy the videos

  34. Michael Readnower February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    thanks great tips😄

  35. OnePercentBetter February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Lmao! Thank you for sharing Clark. I paraphrase with my girlfriend much of the time even when I miss half of what she's said. It works! 😛

  36. Mirza Borogovac February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Great tips! I will write them down.

    My best tip: when you see someone you know, show enthusiasm like a kid who sees someone they love. As you greet this person, say to yourself "Its YOU!", as if it is Santa himself.

    This is one good tip that I got from an expensive management course that my company sent me to. When I first heard this tip, I was skeptical, but boy does it work.

    If you do this, not only will your interactions start on a more positive note, but people will subconsciously associate you with happiness, seek you out, and start smiling as soon as they see you.

  37. AngelicPeopleHurt2 February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    I hate my little giggles. Its not all the time, but it happens here and there when im getting nervous 😓

  38. S Kassidy February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Great video! Communication is something I definitely feel I could improve on.

  39. Angelina G February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Thanks for the pinching idea for powerless language. I am going to try that to see if I can train myself to stop using those words.

    I also can think of people who don't let the other person finish speaking/they aren't really listening and how it is not enjoyable to speak to them much. I find myself avoiding them. I will admit, I have committed their same communication mistakes before, so now I will try to observe myself better and avoid it.

  40. Hench Herbivore February 14, 2018 at 9:53 pm

    Interesting! Glad I found this channel! I interviewed a couple of people on video recently. I said "yeah" sooo many times! 😫 Thanks for the tips!

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